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The first time I heard someone say they planned a beautiful wedding for under $5,000, I’ll admit—I tilted my head like a confused golden retriever. But then I saw it. The photos were full of joy. The guests were glowing. The couple? They were beaming. And every single element was intentional, clever, and surprisingly elegant. They didn’t just “make it work”—they made it theirs.
You don’t need a six-figure budget to throw an unforgettable wedding. You need clarity, creativity, and a few seasoned insights from someone who’s been in the trenches for 20 years (hello, that’s me) watching couples across every budget range find smart ways to stretch their dollars without sacrificing the experience.
Here’s how you can save money—and still have a stunning, meaningful wedding that feels exactly like you.
I say this with love and experience: guest count is the biggest driver of your overall cost. Every extra person means more food, more drinks, more chairs, more favors, and a bigger venue. Trim your list and your savings snowball.
Ask yourself:
Would we take this person out to a $100 dinner tonight?
Have we talked to them in the last year?
Are we inviting them because we want to, or because we feel obligated?
By keeping your wedding intimate, you free up your budget to create a more personalized, elevated experience for the people who matter most.
Saturday in October? Gorgeous, sure—but also premium pricing across the board.
Consider instead:
A Friday evening wedding
A Sunday brunch celebration
A weekday evening affair
A wedding in January, February, or July (less competitive months)
Many vendors offer lower rates for non-peak dates or are more open to negotiation. You’ll also have more availability and flexibility when booking your dream team.
The more scenic your setting, the less décor you’ll need to bring in.
Look for venues that already have:
Lush gardens
Historic charm
Interesting architecture
Water or mountain views
Cozy, intentional indoor design
One bride of mine got married under a 200-year-old oak tree, and we didn’t touch it with a single strand of fabric or florals. It was the decor. The savings were major—and the impact was unforgettable.
Yes, invitations set the tone—but that doesn’t mean you need letterpress on handmade cotton paper with wax seals and silk ribbon (unless that’s your dream—then splurge away).
Ways to save:
Use a semi-custom template from a reputable online designer
Go digital for your save-the-dates or RSVPs
Combine your details card and RSVP into one
Skip programs and menus unless they serve a true purpose
Remember: your wedding website can carry most of the information guests need.
No one leaves a wedding raving about how the chicken was “perfectly plated.”
Instead, serve:
Food stations with themed cuisines
Buffet-style dinner with hearty, crowd-pleasing options
A family-style meal for intimacy
Brunch food (hello waffles and mimosas!)
A taco truck, BBQ stand, or late-night sliders
Focus on flavor and fun, not formality. Guests care more about good food than fancy food.
DIY can absolutely help you save—but only if you:
Have the time
Enjoy the process
Are realistic about your skill level
Signage
Escort cards
Favors (if you're doing them at all)
Simple floral arrangements
Table numbers
Photo booth backdrop
Large-scale florals
Lighting
Anything that requires day-of setup (you should not be steaming linens the morning of your wedding)
You’d be shocked at the quality of what’s available secondhand.
Consider:
A pre-loved wedding dress from a bride who wore it once
Rentals for linens, decor, lounge furniture, or even gowns
Local buy/sell wedding groups for candles, signage, vases, and more
Borrowing items from recently married friends or relatives
A past client found her dream veil from another bride on Facebook Marketplace—for $35. It retailed for $300. And no one could tell the difference.
Every hour you add to your wedding day means:
More vendor hours = more cost
More food and drink = more cost
More chance for something to go sideways
Stick to a streamlined 4–6 hour timeline with:
Ceremony
Cocktail hour
Reception with dinner, toasts, and dancing
An optional after-party elsewhere
Trust me, you don’t need eight hours for a magical celebration.
You can have a beautiful, joyful wedding without draining your savings or starting your marriage with a stack of credit card debt.
I’ve seen couples get creative with every detail—trading tradition for intention, and luxury for authenticity. And what always matters most? The look on their faces when they realize their day turned out exactly as they hoped... even if it didn’t cost a fortune.
If you're willing to make a few non-traditional choices, honor your priorities, and release the idea that expensive = better, you'll open the door to an experience that feels rich in every way that counts.
Weddings are about connection—not cost.
– Bailey J.
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